Analysis

Ever see a stranger and analyse them?
Facial features, loudness, maturity, weight, height, voice, hair. Little judgements you take in as you first meet a person. Finding a reason not to like them because maybe you're intimidated, possibly someone of the same sex or some glorified person in your school/college who everybody seems to love.
Those people probably hate those imperfections that you're finding too.
A comment that might pop into my head about a girl wearing so much makeup I feel sick could be the disguise of someone who completely hates the way they look.
It might be quite easy to find the goodness in people that you know and love, or the people who are timid and weak and maybe a bit of a loner. And I don't know about you, but for the people who are well liked and seem to have it all going on, I'm very quick to make judgement on stupid insignificant things rather than search for the goodness all those other people find in them.
Why destroy when you can encourage. I'm STILL learning its such a better use of my time! I'll get it in the end.